This is an awesome set for beginners and experienced lovers! Its comfortable, looks good, and functions beautifully! My husband had me under his control in no time! For the price, you cant find a better one! Even some of the more expensive ones dont work as well as this. Girls, if youre trying to find a leash and collar for your first time and youre a little shy to try, this is the perfect one! It gives your man all the control he needs and not more than what you want to give him! Enjoy!